Sunday, February 19, 2006
It's been awhile since i blog le and seems like everyone got click my blog but got disappointed? haha, i'm sorry ! Today i am gonna tok more on leadership and how leadership can affect lives =D. It might be boring for some of u all but i just pen down things i learnt thru this 20 yrs of my life.
What's leadership? Being able to stand infront of ur friends and lead them to success. Remember when u all were young tt time and doing projects, and when u all need to select a leader for the team, most of us refuse this role? Y? why does many dislike to be a leader as most does not love to hold responsibilies and tt's something i myself regret for not learning when i was young.
How do make ppl listen to u? u must be logical, knowledgable and having the ability to make ppl believe in you that's how a basic leader should be. Able to draw crowd and win hearts of viewers and as u give a speech or talk, they will nod their heads with agreement. That's not an easy task especially commanding peers or people with higher qualification than u, ppl will question ur believes ur way of dealing things thus being a leader is not that easy after all.
The whole idea of today's blog is to make readers feel that u yourself can be a great leader too, regardless of whether u r a female or a male. In companies, u lead grp of ppl for projects, in wars u lead ppl for sucessive missions and for life u lead ur children to growth and wisdom. Many been agruing that leaders r born and not trained but i felt that it's within the person himself to show if he does want to lead others. Take for example, given the leadership role and u complain abt it now, can this person be a good leader?
Throughout my course in ocs as an officer cadet i felt that there were alot of people does not want to be leaders and ended up in the course. Maybe i am one of them in the start but things and concept changes. As a leader, u think ahead than the others and u make sure that everything goes according to plan. How does it feel when everything is in ur control? Thus this entry is also to encourage everyone serving the army that it's not a burden nor a waste of time when u are in the army. It's how u wanna learn and things u absorb in army will lead to good use the moment u step into the working environment.
It's very sad when i see my frens talking to me that they wanna go out of course or saying that i confirm will go out of course in a joking manner. I feel that since u are in the course, u should strive ur best to finish it as a strong leader and how can u lead ur men in the future when u yourself is not confident to lead others. There's a saying, u are here or doing something for a purpose and if u r not gonna do it then who will?
Never let ur brain go idle and keep learning is the right way to fulfill ur life to the fullest. I am sure along the learning process u will gain wisdom as well. On the other hand, let's tok abt females, how females lead, they lead in a different manner and it's kinda worth to think abt it sometimes. They dun lead thru the hard way and they make ppl think abt their wrongdoings. For example, i often complain to my best pal abt stuffs and she will definately shoot mi back with stuffs and make mi think. In some sense, she leading mi to a path which i can feel better. That's y how motherly love is soo powerful =D. That does not mean my fren is my mum. There's alot kind of leadership and i am kinda curious how women lead women to success. Anyone can share or tag out how u all feel being a leader as a female? or u nv even bother to think of it?
Being able to lead does not make u a good leader too, u must be able to understand how ppl feel and cooperate with ppl ard you even thou sometimes u does not really like him/her. It's sometimes classified as people management and how to make sure that everyone in ur grp or team reached their potenial fully for their given task. There's alot more for me to learn abt leadership but just for now i believe that learning is an important process in life cos someday u will teach someone who's also learning too and seeking for knowledge.
If you are slacking now and doing nothing? y not grab a book or read some interesting articles haha might help to make ur life more interesting =D. To be frank i am kinda motivated by a person i met in army and i hope this entry might inspire u somehow or rather in life or as a person =D. Tkcare everyone and got time date mi out to drink kopi haha =D
-Jason-
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